Do You Want to Get Married and Have a Family?

Everyone around you is getting married…
Some of your friends are even starting to have kids…
You feel like you’re falling behind…

But, you have no idea how to find your guy.  

The men you meet are players or can’t be faithful or are afraid of commitment.
 feels like there are no good guys out there.
Or maybe you’re not meeting anyone at all.  

Does it go something like this? 

Scenario #1 He Comes On Strong At First  

You meet someone interesting. He wants your number. He keeps calling and texting. He can’t get enough of you. Everything’s happening so fast. And you think, Wow. This is really going somewhere. And before you know it you’re a couple.

Except, then things start to change. It feels like he’s not as into you as before. You start feeling insecure. You don’t normally do this, but you check his phone. And you see messages from other women. You feel awful. But, when you bring it up, he says it’s nothing. And he gets mad at you for checking his phone.

You wonder, Am I overreacting? Is he telling the truth? You want to believe him. But, your gut tells you something’s wrong. So, you don’t know what to do.

Scenario #2 Are There Any Good Guys Out There?  

Maybe you like to go really slow. You want to meet someone. But, you don’t want to get hurt. You go out with guys here and there. But, nothing really clicks. It feels like you don’t have anything in common or there’s no chemistry. So, you only go out once or twice. 

Sometimes you wonder, What’s the use? Maybe, there aren’t any good guys out there any way. And you feel like giving up. 

Except you really do want to get married and have a family. But, it doesn’t seem to be working out. And you have no idea what to do.

Scenario #3 Where Are the Men?  

Maybe you haven’t dated in forever. You’re not even sure how to start. You don’t meet men at work. Your friends have tried setting you up. But, that’s a bust.

You’re not comfortable with online dating. Or when you try it you only meet guys who are weird or that come on too strong. Or worse, you get no interest at all.

So, you really have no idea what to do.

Don’t Give Up!  

There are lots of great guys out there. You just have to know how to find them! 

I know what it’s like to really want to be in a relationship — but you have no idea how to get there. I tried and tried to find someone good. And it just wasn’t working. But, I didn’t give up. I got help.

I went to see a therapist (yes, therapists see therapists). I went to support groups. I read books. I went to school to become a Marriage and Family Therapist. Then I continued my studies to get a doctorate in Marriage and Family Studies. And I attended seminars where I learned how to date and how to screen out the guys who weren’t serious about finding love. 

All of this helped me learn how relationships work — how to find someone good and how to have a good relationship. I’m happily married now. 

And I love sharing everything I’ve learned to help you find YOUR GUY! So you can have:  

  • closeness and love
  • fun and laughter
  • friendship
  • romance
  • commitment  

Because, that’s what you deserve!

Call today for a free consultation

Sometimes you just need someone to show you the way. 

I’d love to chat with you about what’s happening. Just call me today so we can get started.

You can reach me at (626) 215-2527 for a free phone consultation.

I can’t wait to hear from you. 


I offer counseling, hypnotherapy, and seminars at my office in Glendora, California. Glendora is a Los Angeles suburb in the San Gabriel Valley. Nearby cities include San Dimas, La Verne, and Claremont. Glendora is also accessible from Pasadena, Los Angeles, the Inland Empire and Orange County. 

Dr. Vondie LozanoDr. Vonda ("Vondie") Lozano is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Hypnotherapist, and former Psychology Professor. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, the Wall Street Journal and on KABC Talk Radio. Download her *free* Online Dating Audio, Shopping for Men, Part 1.