Do You Want to Get Married and Have a Family?

Is everyone around you getting married?
Are some of your friends starting to have kids?
Do you feel like you’re falling behind? 

But, you have no idea how to find your guy.  

Do You Wonder – Are There Any Good Guys Out There?    

Scenario #1 He Comes On Strong At First  

You meet someone interesting. He wants your number. He keeps calling and texting. He can’t get enough of you. Everything’s happening so fast. And you think, Wow. This is really going somewhere. And before you know it you’re a couple.

But, then things start to change. He doesn’t seem that into you anymore. You start feeling insecure. You don’t normally do this, but you check his phone. And you find messages from other women. You feel awful. But, when you bring it up, he says it’s nothing. And he gets mad at you for checking his phone.

You wonder, Am I overreacting? Is he telling the truth? You want to believe him. But, your gut tells you something’s wrong. So, you don’t know what to do.

Scenario #2 There’s No Chemistry    

Maybe you like to go really slow. You want to meet someone. But, you don’t want to get hurt. You go out with guys here and there. But, nothing really clicks. It feels like you don’t have anything in common or there’s no chemistry. So, you only go out once or twice. 

Sometimes you wonder, What’s the use? Maybe, there aren’t any good guys out there any way. And you feel like giving up. Except you really do want to get married and have a family. So, you have no idea what to do.

Scenario #3 Where Are the Men?  

Maybe you haven’t dated in forever. You’re not even sure where to start. You don’t meet men at work. Your friends have tried setting you up. But, that’s a bust.

When you try online dating, you only hear from guys who are weird or who come on too strong. Or worse, you get nothing. So, you really have no idea what to do.

There are Lots of Great Guys Out There If You Know How to Find Them  

I know what it’s like to really want to be in a relationship — but you have no idea how to make it happen. I grew up in a dysfunctional family and no matter how hard I tried, I couldn’t figure it out how to find someone good.

I saw other people meet and fall in love without really trying. But, my relationships were few and far between. It seemed like the guys I really wanted weren’t that interested or they didn’t stay interested. And the ones who did want me were guys I just saw as friends. 

But, I didn’t give up. I got help to heal myself. And I learned about dating and relationships.

I went to a therapist (yes, therapists see therapists). I went to school to become a Marriage and Family Therapist. After that I went back for my doctorate in Marriage and Family Studies. Then I learned more when I was teaching psychology and counseling at APU and University of La Verne. And I kept studying about relationships. I even attended seminars and support groups. 

And I took everything I learned and put it to practice in my own life. And I discovered there are lots of great guys out there! And I found my very own great guy — my husband.

And that’s important. Because, when it comes to relationships, a therapist can’t give what they don’t have.  In other words, I can’t help you find love if I don’t know how to do that myself. (Lewis, Amini, & Lannon, A General Theory of Love, 2000) 

I Love Helping You So You Can Find Your Great Guy! 

You can have the kind of relationship you always dreamed of, full of:    

  • closeness and love
  • fun and laughter
  • friendship
  • romance
  • commitment  

And that’s what you deserve.

I’d Love to Hear from You

Sometimes you just need someone who’s been there… to show you the way. 

I’d love to chat with you about where you are in your journey to find your guy. Just call me. You can reach me at (626) 215-2527 for a free phone consultation.

I can’t wait to hear from you. 


I offer counseling, hypnotherapy, and seminars at my office in Glendora, California. Glendora is a Los Angeles suburb in the San Gabriel Valley. Nearby cities include San Dimas, La Verne, and Claremont. Glendora is also accessible from Pasadena, Los Angeles, the Inland Empire and Orange County. 

Dr. Vondie LozanoDr. Vonda ("Vondie") Lozano is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Certified Hypnotherapist, and former Psychology Professor. She has been featured in Cosmopolitan, the Wall Street Journal and on KABC Talk Radio. Download her *free* Online Dating Audio, Shopping for Men, Part 1.